Fears and worries are part of the development of children and adolescents. Thanks to them learn to keep away at something or someone, can also recognize that they need more and more quickly address personal and family situations increasingly difficult and complex. Our fears as a child that is our warning signs when something is not working as it should be and that helps us take appropriate action to resolve it.
But what would happen if the course of our development and maturation stage of psycho are not met our anxieties and fears from our parents. As would become phobias.
phobia comes in the form of a marked and persistent fear, excessive or unreasonable. In these cases it is recommended that parents visit a specialist to start the respective treatment. PHOBIA
SEEMS WHEN A CHILD WAS AFRAID OF NEGLECTED AND IGNORED WHETHER IN NEGLIGENCE, OR BECAUSE LACK OF ATTENTION EVEN ADULTS WILL BE AWARE THAT NO DAMAGE YET WE OVERCOME OUR FEARS.
children to express their fears of an adult looking for containment and understanding of the experience for them, also remember that it is not easy to bring these experiences when feel that fear paralyzes us.
Here is a summary table of the most common fears and ages where they appear more frequently. Importantly, these fears are common and their presence in the child must not alarm parents, but be vigilant as the child attempts to evolve and leave behind to overcome fear is to some object, person, animal or specific situation .
Normal developmental fears:
0 to 1 year: Crying to unknown stimuli
2 to 4 years: Fear of animals
4 to 6 years: Fear of the dark to disasters, and imaginary creatures (monsters and ghosts)
6 to 9 years: Fear of physical harm or ridicule by the absence of school and sports skills
9 to 12 years: Fear of fires, accidents, serious illness. Displayed fear of serious conflict between parents or poor school performance.
12 to 18: Fears related to personal self-esteem (intellectual ability, physical appearance, fear of failure) and social relations.
fears
When a child experiences are no longer talking about recent transition from a phobia. Phobias are a special form of fear with the following characteristics:
Many parents make light of the fears their children, arguing that children are things that as you get older you are overcome. Or worse still to think that they are exaggerations or Baby-sitting force their children to face those fears directly, resulting in their children a huge upset, and even being unaware that the fears turn into phobias.
If your children or some children and adolescents in their environment experimanta a situation where fear and anxiety hold of them, it is important to provide quiet, containment, attention, and ask that they themselves give us a way to know Detailed reasons for their discomfort. If you identify a phobia or some fear and overwhelmed is important to see a specialist for treatment concerned.
CHILD IS ABLE TO FACE THEIR FEARS GETS BEAT THE MAXIMUM AMOUNT OF BARRIERS ALONG YOUR LIFE. The fear makes them stronger every day and awake, if an adult provided the necessary calm and help face the fear in a gradual and gentle.
"The Maid is a partner in raising our children, affection and the bond they form with our children is not negotiable nor has any price, remember that always"
" 5 steps to be taken into account and also remember that authority is not imposed, but is won in the daily link to share with our children, our life experiences when we were your age"
fries with Frugo
Cookie, and gas kekito
Chifles with Tea
salchipapas
juiceMilk Chocolate Sustagen and
Cookies delicacy
These are some of the answers they gave me to ask my pacientitos What sent you lunch?
When meeting with parents, inquiring how "certain" were the answers I gave the little ones, for food sent them. Many of these parents reported that their children eat a balanced and nutritious, but only related to foods and lunch on weekends, lunch or dinner for their children when they come to work at night. Most parents indicated that their children had lunch at their schools and also the children's breakfast consisted only juice or milk and / or in the worst cases they took, so I ordered the lunch milk some nutritional supplements to treats that have sugar to burn on the playground.
The answers are given to describe the start up of children between 3 and 6 years of age who are in first years of preschool or who started her school in a large school, whose eating and sleeping routines are very poor, not by the negligence or carelessness of parents, but because of lack of time and information on how to organize a nutritious lunch appealing to children this age, as well as guidelines to follow for the rest of the children.
One of the factors that distract preschoolers to finish eating their lunch, is the need to play. THE GAME IS ALSO A FOOD FOR THEM , but like any food or energy source has to be dosed and treated expediently. Incorporating ideas of "games" in lunch boxes between parents and children is a plus, with this we are gaining ground and keep the communication channel open.
The lunchbox also could become a channel of communication between parents and children. I remember a lot to a mom that I proposed to send notes or drawings on her daughter's lunch every other day and the relationship between them began to narrow. He sent little notes saying: When I was little ... and the mother decided I remember sharing with her daughter, and upon reaching the house was already a topic of conversation between them or a sequence of play. It was thus part of the girl also leave little drawings in the case of the mother or in the lunchbox, and coordinate the weekend with dad to eat things during the week and go to the supermarket to buy what is needed for preparation. Sometimes
touched me teenagers listen to me describe their breakfasts and lunches so automatic that seems to have consumed his life as well and reached a point where they did not care to eat or not eat. Once in session with a boy of 16 asked for his breakfast. He says: orange juice and bread, I wonder fruit juice and French bread? or white bread and juice box?, he remains silent and tells me it is not it? Bread is bread and juice is juice. With 16 years accustomed to eating processed foods lack parental time and with years in which you do not remember sitting having breakfast with them on a Monday, this guy just realized the MALNUTRITION EMOTIONAL maintaining and how terrible it was to feel alone with all that.
A lunch is a possibility of teaching and learning with children, start making between 3 and 6 years old and teach them the habit, make it easier for between 7 and 11 can be more independent and between 12 and 17 to be more responsible with food.
As parents who work and have time with the fair and we are tight with our many occupations and earrings, we forget even our own lunch boxes, few not go to a fast food or ask for a delivery that is easier to prepare a lunch and bring it in the thermos. If a parent can not teach by example will be difficult for our children to be consistent with what they say and do. But if, despite the lack of time we do something ... can be programmed over the weekend to do something at home, make lunch, family time again.
A creative lunch box is what gives us the opportunity to approach our children and hang time to share some of our life experience with them, we may not be "master chefs" and our flavor worthy of gigantic tail " ; Mistura, but we can try to fashion gambling with our children, especially in this age where they need our "assistance" and "containment" emotional.
REMEMBER AND SLEEP A breastfed infants, an infant begins to move and keep it up, his priority is not FIND FOOD, THE BABY IS EASY ACCESS TO ALL BECAUSE NO ONE IS ABLE TO DO SO.
BUT THE BOY OF 3 TO 6 YEARS AND IS INDEPENDENT OF ITS HANDLING, AND SPEECH AND SAY YOU WANT AND NO ONE CAN EAT, BUT STILL NOT PERFECT SO YOU NEED AN ADULT "ATTEND" BUT NOT DO THINGS FOR HIM, BUT THAT SWALLOWED THE POWER WILL NOT BE USED PROPERLY.
3 to 6 years old is creative lunch boxes and lunch!
If you have stories about lunch boxes or have had problems that they want to see on this topic can send them and will gladly answer
When I feel I have much to say but I really do not feel free to write anything I end up writing things like this.
And I can not help but be sensitive, sad, happy, anxious, bored, hyper, quiet, ... unsafe.
need a different soul will not feel so much, I'm tired.
need a soul to give me strength to endure things ... where are you? Want to find and all have found their own but I do not find dammit!
... keep waiting patient and sensitive and I do not like but I have no choice. When you arrive, let me know because you might not see you for being submerged within my soul weak and tender.
In this letter I speak of those people that we can attribute this title. Normally there are few, but how can we identify them?
I think all we ever asked that question. I have no answer increasing number of experiences that make you change your point of view. Some people come into our lives, it becomes very important and then goes, there are others who never get close but that surprise you with something no one else would do for you. There are also those who initially were not important but time will end up ... there are many types of people and so many different attitudes one at the end does not know who to call friend and who is not.
I recently had a conversation with two friends about it ... I think they have it clearer than me.
When time they make plans for life with those they consider their friends, when they cry because their friends do not do what they expected to do for them, when you say "I miss you" and feel that is true, when you see that you have all you want and you will not be judged when you really feel support for everything, absolutely everything, then you realize the size of the word friend.
And today I write about this because I feel I need to. And I'm far from my past, of where my life is that I have but recently got some of my friends there and I have wanted so much to see and want to see any film in the cinema. Now I think I found People really have given me unconditional support and feel good.
Et voilà, c'est la vie.
"Learning to cook and be able to produce our own food, not only helps to satisfy hunger, but we can give use emotional and learning to better process our emotions
What better time to write this post after a meal with dessert included. And is that during these weeks after Father's Day I spent most of my time to reflect on the impact of food on us and the lessons that bring us food, but especially those shared moments around them. The first figure
power that comes to me, is that of a mother breastfeeding her baby, and that mothers are the first representatives of our nutrition. Another image that is easy to remember is that of a couple cooking together, an image often associated with seduction between male and female. There are other fun and creative images as seen most little kids do for the first time her first steps in the kitchen.
But today the skill of knowing food prepared well and make the need to nurture a pleasure, something already inherent in human beings. It is said that what made us human was our ability to process food and thus have more time for other activities both physical and intellectual, and now time to meet the enormous need for emotional nourishment.
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In the beginning was the woman who begins to develop these skills to make the task easier to digest food for herself and her children and men who brought the food reserves, before there was a survival situation that was not covered if the heat load is not had enough energy to perform daily activities.
There is a curious fact that if you have not noticed this detail.
The human body has 3 hollow organs (heart, uterus and stomach), the contents of these cavities varies according to the function performed by each body. Where we have the 3 women, but men only 2.
And WHY? because I have reached the following conclusion: The
HEART allowed our blood, a fluid completely customized, unique and important for life. Blood concentrated our movement and the heart is functioning by A1 who makes it there in 2 types of blood, a peroxide and other oxygen. Our center of love, how to distinguish good from bad. THE HEART OF A MAN AND A WOMAN IS SAID equivalent in size to FIST OF HANDS, you have option to open and close as they see fit, but in no way be mixed if they join their lives.
UTERUS The instead is a unique body of women, home blood also, but their main function is the delivery and reception, but we must remember that the supply is constant without having received the same give our blood to the earth every month. And when he feels he can receive the seed of life of a man she loves is when generating the design of a new life, it takes 9 months cook this new being , I say "cooking" because it takes time and ingredients needed mom and dad.
And STOMACH receptor is a constant not only of physical things we eat but also of our emotions. It is our stomach who alerts us to the filters we must put in the BASTA and upper we set ourselves to ourselves and others.
At this point I would emphasize the theme of food, nutrition and we cook. Since both men and women have stomachs to feed but we also have ingredients for life to give a possible conception. But take care of the physical and emotional nutrition a child is not easy, the first 6 months is exclusively breastfed, and when the baby teeth have started to eat solids. But just as the teeth are signs that the baby need to supplement their diet with solid and as that grows needs to learn to chew and digest things heavier, "IS THE SIGNAL TO START A EMOTIONAL NUTRITION SUPPLEMENT?.
not think there is a visible sign , but only pay attention to what one has to give and to where you want to receive. A typical example is the anxious parents that their children will not eat, or the example that I find most unfortunate that for ease and convenience of the adults we give our children foods high in calories and sensory impact, such as meals junk or fried foods and processed meals and sweets, these foods were prepared by parents, but quickly acquired for hunger or emotional needs of their children.
Children prefer to play to eat, adolescents prefer to share with people who understand and communicate their pains and before eating. And many adults turn to food for "High Impact" to mitigate their distress or slip away from reality.
Every good meal takes time and this is what we expect will be measured as the limits that we have to put and to respect others. Impatience can lead to unhealthy experiences or pleasurable. Who has not had indigestion or maintain the rejection of a meal for some discomfort stomach.
is easier to go to a restaurant to get home to cook for 5 all hungry and demanding to be fast. IT'S EASIER TO PUT HAMBURGERS 2 JUMP TO MAKE A BOWL OF STEW WITH Salad.
On the other hand, as women began with the development of skills in the kitchen, are now the men who have the task of developing EXQUISITE most appetizing dishes of the finest presentations of the dishes, not the pure it is said that male chefs are the best in the world.
Here's another scenario that I have ...
womenAs the loving starts with providing food and we saw how to make food every day is less heavy or toxic, are now responsible for seducing men with new foods and set the boundaries.
What was once FOOD trucker said, it's not just for boys but that the highest rate of obesity as women now have, but that higher rates of substance abuse as boys have, and unfortunately addictions not yet recognized as dangerous are those with children to foods that call for high impact fritters, sausages, sweets and processed flours.
Seeing the kitchen dare we continue to evolve emotionally is really valuable, even me is an indicator of it confronts the reality and tolerance to frustration, every time I see teenage boys and girls always ask them both to them and them and their parents can cook "?. Imagine
two useless in the kitchen for not knowing how to control hormones, they were only able to cook a baby and as a consequence of them have 2 choices, surrender to the adventure of parenting and begin to learn their children's dare or left OUTLET ADULT what their parents tell them fearful and anxious to do, it's like they want to eat something they enjoy many and their parents tell them I chewed BEST FOR YOU AND WHAT COMES AFTER YOU. In no way should be allowed such invasive attacks.
NOBODY BETTER YOURSELF TO KNOW IF YOU WANT TO BE INCORPORATED INTO THAT WANTS TO GIVE AND YOU WISH TO RECEIVE THE STATE AND THE ENVIRONMENT.
TODAY Share a moment of emotional nourishment FAMILY, the best ingredients are their experiences will not be disappointed. Even with yourself in solitude, in order to have and the experience learned and help to nourish our loved ones better.
is said that life changes dramatically when a man becomes a father, in my case from my experience as a psychologist and adult daughter now I can say that the father of a child is an experience that transforms not only the life of a man but the way to see his daughter.
is the girl who changes his life, and you'll have to see in a moment away from him. To live their lives alone or split in the company of another man who is not his father.
I have witnessed many times as the father and daughter bond so strong mark the fate of a woman. Like everything in life there are extreme cases where the father gave him all the love, attention and care to her daughter but it hurts to see her leave and also cases where a father sadly mistaken immature and causes some discomfort to his daughter as a case of violence or sexual assault. Let's not forget the typical cases where there was extreme but a sort of estrangement between father and daughter for the father's difficulty expressing affection.
These points made me think how thin the line between the love that a parent can feel for every child, in addition there are ages at which the gaze of the parent changes dramatically on her daughter.
is not the same as the dad of a girl between 5 and that can be loaded without problems, he may sleep in his bed, which can swim or even see her naked. Thing that changes when the child is already 15 years who are not going able to easily load, would be "weird" to share a bed with her, or who saw her running in front of him without clothes or to help her bathe. HAPPENED IN THIS PERIOD OF TIME, WHAT HAPPENED WITH THAT LITTLE GIRL OF 5 TO 15 NOW TO DISCOVER THAT HIS FATHER IS A PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE WOMEN AND POINT OF DESIRE FOR MEN.
is where is the first resignation of a parent, you have to accept a cap on his father's love, to let your daughter gets older and learns to trust other people different from him, how difficult it? But necessary.
I have seen men before having a daughter bond they had with women was very superficial, or tenían muy al margen de lo que realmente sentían, pero desde que les tocó ser papá de una BEBITA y darse cuenta que esa niña se convertiría en una mujer se pusieron verdes del miedo.
Hoy por ejemplo tuve sesión con varios padres y sus hijas. Por la mañana escuche la emoción de un padre primerizo que celebrará su primer día del padre con su nueva bebé, también escuche durante una sesión a una niña de 9 decir que su padre era un tonto, en la tarde a una chica de 14 decir que su papa le tenia asegurado su fondo para que ella elija la carrera que desee en la mejor universidad que elija, a otra adolescente de 16 hacer mil intentos por esconder su piercing cuando el papá hace rato que lo sabia and an adult of 19 to find a suitable time with his father to tell him about his new relationship.
always told us that the father is a figure of authority and respect, but never as one of trust and openness to be listened to and advised, this is something that many girls have gotten from their parents and that have not found what looking at a partner. Or that having a child they seek to do with children what their parents gave them.
I'm just minutes from 12 midnight and I get ready to go to rest and go see my father, grandfather and uncle in his day. But I could not stop to leave without thanking the father that I have in this life, that many times I feel like I was his mother but I have to remember that I am small and he is great, but physically I was your size at 14 and now with more years on top and with more things I learned from him, I can say it was the only man who gave me the security and confidence to never give up what they wanted, with his patience and tolerance to the test of fire, taught me to believe in me, was the one who always gave me proof of your faith and pride in what I was doing or could in the life, which got my first patients, he inherited the gift of patience and power to hear and speak calmly, who also took pictures as a little me and now I take them to him, he never will give me, and the day I left home but felt that my absence from home he was. You showed me that a man who loves is able to stay strong and patient, if not not say anything because I did not feel it because it respects what one feels, no need to impose anything, accepting the complexity of women and even willing to passing inconvenience for those who love and buy emergency pads or yellow pepper sauce to get me because they forgot to save a little. And is willing to defend her daughter at the expense of making a mess with his wife.
called me just this last line, I said how are you girl? see you tomorrow? If Daddy lies that we are already in a while. Thanks Dad for always being there when I need you for looking after me and I could tell you anything and although not quite understand you do your best to listen.
I repeat always the girls that the boys discuss things with his dad one better than him to help them learn how to decipher the actions and reactions of the men with you.
A hug to all of your day daddies and daughters make the most of those moments that still have their dad around.
OUR CHILDREN AND YOUNG ADULTS WE NEED WELL WE ARE EMOTIONALLY.
Every adult in the immediate environment of a child and teenager needs to be emotionally stable to be able to offer and LOVE CONTAINMENT steadily.
This is a request that I make most kids who come to my office, either immediately in times of despair or after a period of time when can confide their most intimate fears and anger by the "Welfare Frustrated" those who have been exposed.
All this, of course, is not made by the parents of intentional or premeditated. EYE, not to say that a father and mother are unable to provide the best conditions of life for their children, but unfortunately only have concentrated on providing and excessive way, the feeling of being economically based physical and accumulation of goods and rewards, say toys, walks, meals irresistible, and so on.
emotional needs of a child need to be covered in the following order: (which Earn explain to my children Authority)
is not only important to know what they are and how to accommodate them, but this requires to be free of emotional upset, which is quite complicated and difficult for most adults have children or not.
ASK AS IF THE MANAGEMENT OF PAIN, ANGER, FEAR, SHAME, ETC NOT ACHIEVING A POSITIVE RESPONSE IS TIME FOR MEDITATION AND PUT YOUR HANDS TO WORK, IF YOU DID NOT HANDLE AS COULD TEACH MY CHILDREN TO COPE WITH THEM. The
s obesity and Adolescents give us the great and beautiful opportunity to be aware of it to do something and solve it. Not only is it necessary for them to help them in their development process, but to finish growing, mature and evolve as human beings we adults human.
Today I share a video that a friend sent me on Facebook, is about as in a cartoon is explained in a manner so simple and fun for children and become conscious and control our actions in life. All this with the knowledge of how vital energy flowing through our chakras.
GURU (Full Episode TODOANIMES)
(*) The part of the explanation of the chakras begins at minute 5 approximately
if not as adults you ever wondered why it is so necessary for us to be well enough to help a little. The answer is the way to give to small cases, placing one on each farm.
Let our children and adolescents experience the most of every chance learning throughout their lives, while exposing even greater number of experiences will be best for them.
But adults with our "TARAS EMOTIONAL" complicate their life, when it should be so, but on the contrary it should provide every day.
IF YOU HAVE A CHILD TODAY AND / OR TEEN IN YOUR SURROUNDINGS MAKE AN AGREEMENT, ESTABLISH A COMMITMENT BETWEEN 2 AND SEEK GROWTH IN PARALLEL BOTH HELP EACH OTHER IN THE GUIDANCE AND ORIENTATION IN THE IF THE ADULT AND THE OTHER IN THE PROCESS OF EMOTIONAL RECONEXCION BY THE CHILD. TEENS AND THE COVENANT IS NOT ALLOW THE ABOVE BLOCKS Limit the creation of a life like you always dreamed THE 2.
A boy invents a fun and magical life, the teenager has the courage to fight for it and the passion to make each day more wonderful. For the adult to connect with both energies can have the life you always dreamed.
Today I share with all fans of FAMILY AND EXPERIENCE this series of 4 videos on a 16 year old CAMILO The ASPI is a guy that very clearly and in a manner very direct and sincere is expressed as live as a person with this condition different life Asperger syndrome.
The Great Lesson In I refer to one of the difficulties that I perceive in some of these guys, regarding the management of pain and hurt emotionally.
II In this part I want to emphasize These videos have been made by children and adolescents. They themselves have decided to explain his experiences as ASPI and request understanding and patience from adults and other children their age.
The need to be alone for children with Asperger's important to feel that they are calm and feel safe, their other needs are different from those of average kids their age and even others may call him a rare but are necessities completely legitimate and above all sincere, are not like other guys who want to say such a toy just because if they have a whole set foundation and logic of things.
Another thing I admire about them is their perseverance and insistence on something that interests them, some think it's obsessive but I'd say follow your heart what they say and do respect their needs and not be postponed.
These guys have come up with a way of being, it is not rare, no better or worse than another, we will not hear a parent say I'd rather have a child you have ASPI hyperactivity.
But what I discovered as a result of these videos and the curious fact that today I want to discuss with parents is that ASPI was the creator of a cartoon that has marked a revolution in the game and interests of children, talk about POKEMON. This
cartoon led to children to have a new game code, and this helped the children who are less assertive and more vulnerable physically, find a way to direct competition "melee" with other children but through the collection of these toys they saw in the cartoon. But also had to have the ability to know the qualities of each of the Pokemon in question, and besides being a lot of names to memorize the levels of power or energy or what kind each belonged.
was no longer playing marbles, but there was a whole study through to play. It is
so that now many parents have difficulty to play on an equal footing with their children, as instructions on how to use the Pokemon are given in each chapter to how animated tutorial.
BUT LET'S SEE THIS AS A CHALLENGE! Thanks a ASPI going to make the effort to enter the world of them and know that you like and what not.
Kids today are full of surprises, each day that passes is as if they increased their energy level, memory capacity, level of feeling or perception, forms of interaction with the environment etc. .
What I hope at some not too distant future, is to find Videos parents share what they learn from their children whatever CONDITION OF LIFE THAT HAS BORN. But I have to admit that an ASPI gives you a great opportunity to connect parents and children, because it's all research work until like to know that their children and also the urgent need to update what they learn that their children will go faster than them. Finally
reference to the dismissal of CAMILO, é l grateful to have friends, to send a heartfelt message to those who can be mocked for being different and acknowledges that he still has things to change and learn how ALL of himself as of others. TESTOMONIO THAT BEAUTIFUL LIFE.
GUYS THAT KEEP ON INCREASES AS CAMILO, for adults we can get BATTERIES AND HELP OUR CHILDREN TO HAVE A BETTER QUALITY OF LIFE.
few days ago a new patient contacts me and makes me question:
"Is it possible that my children one 17 and another 19 who are separated for years with his mother which do not respect, to recover my authority as a parent with them or be friends? "
No doubt it's a family situation where authority is escaped of the hands of both parents and children make and unmake as adults NOW. This query reminded me that in almost 80% of the respondents from families in which all its members live together even as they are separated there is an eternal conflict between first I must attend to my children or my relationship with my partner.
Consider first the case of the father ... Already
ending with 2 teenage children and entering an age where parents do not need more than to meet your cats and have to eat or sleep is more difficult the situation. As I told the father the first thing is to focus on how to reconnect with them, may have been 1 year and months since I did not see or talked to them and if they did was to ask for things. Order to strengthen the new link after you have with them. It is obvious that more than a parent will have to show a friend the other role besides that of father, but as do not mix both? and as marking the limits?
are two points to consider:
1. Admitting mistakes that could make them and learn to handle the responses began to give or not their children. Criticisms may arise, scolded things, maybe even seek to exploit this situation to receive compensation for time not served and not wanting to talk to the i hear. All this makes one an adult and father have to rethink the way they see their children, who are now entering adulthood.
2. Being parents of a child from 3 different one of 6 to 9 and one is nothing to be boys and 12 or 18, each year increase in life is getting more complex but not difficult, itself becomes complicated when it failed to meet their emotional needs for a long time to feel alone and they have 2 options: rebel and show challenging behaviors or have to learn to grow more rapidly as a result they believe do not need anymore to parent.
But back to what I mentioned at the beginning of this note, that 80% of cases or more query the parents get into a terrible contradiction and confusion ... I repeat what is that for an adult is more difficult to leave the problem for a child because the child has fewer years to the conflict, but it is still highly impressive, while the average adult over 30 to have at least more than 15 years and with one or more issues that have caused him discomfort.
not mean that one is easier than the other or that one is worse and the other not, simply are 2 different aspects. Now in the case of adolescents although they will be easier to get out of distress compared to their parents, the experience of feeling overwhelmed by years of conflict or things they were silent and did not support more that makes Adolesc ... that is why teenagers are told and many of the adults and even dial parents of other children, although they remain in that pain.
This father is concerned for their children is entering a difficult age, and do not want to see things get crime or harm them in any way, but who treats the pain not only as parents but as an adult man is and maybe he sees that life is complicated couple, did not address the emotional needs of their children in time and now suffers from it and is NOT easy to get out of that pain
INSITE is why in the "preventive" in counseling during the first 3 years of life for parents, as they are in the capacity to develop themselves the emotional profile of each of their children and from the 3 and older learn to deal with the experiences of their children, these tantrums, tantrums, disobedience, hyperactivity or sorrows of their children as parents help them grow and learn from their little masters his CHILDREN.
But the issue of partner is also important, and the best prevention can be done even before a relationship with someone else is to rethink their life goals, ordered the first one (A) and get things straight.
Stay tuned to what is present them with either sus hijos, su pareja o con ustedes mismos, solo ustedes son los que deciden en que momento se resuelven sus conflictos cada etapa de la vida es maravillosa.
Los espero para trabajar con sus hijos, con sus parejas o solos, y podamos trabajar en FAMILIA nuestras nuevas VIVENCIAS, con las lecciones que cada miembro de nuestro entorno nos da.
 
Desde pequeña me gustó la idea de ser mami de alguien, a pesar que no era la típica niña que jugaba con muñecas, ya que prefería salir a montar bicicleta, treparme a los arboles o hacer travesuras en casa, hubo una época en la que I remember having a toy BB and want to play mom.
Today, adults with an independent life even look that Mom shared with me this game, but I find it difficult. I am an adult but I know I need to play mother to mother. Will not play enough girl, maybe never wanted to stop playing the mom. But the problem is AS FAST AS.
Every time I see girls between 3 and 5 years to charge your baby toy or taking in a stroller, carrying in his backpack Baby the little things I notice that absolutely all come with that ability and I see that many of us have lost that skill, get bored quickly and it is difficult to play along for more than 10 minutes.
What happened? At that time women lost the skill to carry a baby, change diaper, feed him, put him to sleep. If it was so simple for girls, which occurred "We got tired of playing the mother? "They showed us another game? "We wanted to play at being a woman? Mom was there or was trying to not lose the game that started when we were born?
are many questions and few answers. But back to AS for 2 adults to one that is already a mother with a grown daughter and the other as an adult but still like to be daughter and mother, are brought to play. It appears that while an already played and could not wanting to do it again, the other as you do not know or remember their beginnings in this game when I was 3 years old, looking for someone to help.
And no woman has been to think that this is a game that has no end, and it's so wonderful because it allows us to continue growing and learned of a new being.
The reality is that many of us from small we become mothers, but in the way we were taught to be women studying to be worked full time. We
someday make the profession of being a Mother is so RECOGNIZED ACADEMIC AND PROFESSIONAL. We consider it important that ALL mothers do not seek help from us to achieve our goals, personal, family and professionals.
If you have a mother who study a profession or part of his life devoted to work outside the home and in parallel had to raise children, now that is free of responsibility because their children are grown and have all the time for it, but we realize that it is not easy, MAKE A DEAL BETWEEN MOTHERS AND DAUGHTERS ...
The daughter who wants to be a mother and an adult and independent, you can teach that to your mother, as she shared with her daughter's emotions and experiences he had during his years as a mother.
cheer It's all I am already doing, next to my 30 and my mother at 60, we are coming my MOTHER SHE has come of age and wisdom of enjoyment of life and I in the middle of the road but full of loving energy to give.
But what happens with the girls from their mothers between 15 and 35 or 45, remember that big changes are ages share something valuable to the hormonal changes while about menstruation were about 5 years ago about the other's fears are will be like in 10 or 5 years when they have it. Both are afraid, share it and see that they will feel closer to each other.
Every mother and daughter will need each other ...
AND WHY LEARN TO BE MOTHER DAUGHTER FOR ... We must remember that women also have more years and we believe or feel that we have nothing in common, we chose the one to the other end to a mission to grow together as women. We respect our place they are small and large.
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO ALL I say to all be mothers or not, because we all have the capacity for motherhood as we do from small do not forget.
A special hug DELIA my mother and thank God for giving me the opportunity to not only have her as a mother but as a woman who spent part of his life to teaching and is a great teacher. THANKS
MOTHER FOR GIVING ME LIFE, THANKS FOR CHOOSING A FATHER WHO GIVES ME STRENGTH THANKS FOR BELIEVE IN ME, THANKS FOR THE LESSONS THAT DO NOT MIND ME DAS DAS, THANKS FOR LET ME FEEL SINCE I WAS IN YOUR BELLY AND THANKS FOR MY NAME ailed
Over the years, the role of NANAS has gained greater prominence in the emotional life of children and Girls today.
Within my space in the office, I would say that less than 50% of adults accompanying children sessions are their babysitters, family member or someone close to the family and that over 50% of the reasons for consulting parents about the bond that their children have established their Nanas, ranging from abuse in the most unfortunate to excessive attachment Nana child or the child to it which creates confusion in the little ones who prefer to decide if your Nana or Mom. Any crisis of disloyalty affective-emotional.
On the other hand, many of them have not been prepared to provide emotional support to babies or children who are in charge. I think the role of a nanny is just as important as that of a schoolteacher. Both the highest number of hours a day with children the same amount of hours that many parents are in their respective jobs.
The younger the child is more demanding of attention and care is. And her nanny not only has to be trained in techniques of infant care and feeding but played with children and large right, but above all to surrender and merge into a bond that time to the departure of the Nana, that's all an event for children under his care. We must tell the child to know both parents the same nanny, because they go and do the least shocking event to the child but always as honestly as possible.
I admire his work and that even many they spend years delivering not only his experience in the care and attention of children but who gave their love of children. It is also difficult for small children whole and realize that their Nana's care because mom and dad paid for it, I have had cases in which many children to find their Nanas were hired by parents resented and thought that Nana would leave when their parents no longer pay him or her to have their own children or a job away from them.
other hand I have also seen many of those little bossy and abuse the trust of their mothers, boys and not 2 or 4 years, but already 7 or 8, which requires to do what they Nanas but want to tell their parents that throw away.
One must remember that Nana is for support in raising the baby and child, no cover or replace what parents do with their children, also have the opportunity to share with these children their life experience and so when she has a chance of being a mother, your children can enjoy the experience gave him work for the welfare of children.
Some even so many years of experience could give as chair of caring for a baby and a child, so much so that until cable television programs have. I think a work of great nobility as to earn a living caring the most innocent beings of this world and also provides the Nana of great sensitivity.
do you most admire IN NANA IS YOUR TOLERANCE AND RESPECT FOR THE CHILDREN'S SPEECH, ARE WILLING TO FOLLOW THE PACE TO CHILDREN AND WHAT THEY DO TO FOLLOW THEM.
Their experience is precious, every child who care for them to grow as people and know a little more, this can lead to love a baby or child is not hers and quickly replenished the hard time after separation or leave of this creature but know that all the time, love and dedication that they gave is invaluable.
hope the day comes the work of Nana is the most important part of society that can accompany aging parents and provide emotional support that every child and family needs.
Who are our grandmothers, the Mothers of our mother ... Women who have experienced the joy of conceiving the life of a new human being inside, have waited 9 months to bring the world and watch as the years go by so that their children become emotionally stable and independent adults.
Let me tell you something more than the grandmothers ... because in times of change and revolution grandmothers also need to be seen differently.
Even grannies are cooking you conceited rich and giving you stuff that they do or bring with you all the love in the world. But these days it's almost rare now grandmothers have experienced extreme, some are grandmothers super young in some cases under 40 while passing the 60 other grandmothers.
respect to its activities have also decreased significantly only grandmothers who were devoted to raising children at home and never worked. But there is a growing group of grandmothers who still work, they became grandmothers but still can not retire.
Another fact about the grandmothers is that having more experience mothers, they forget that in this new stage of grandchildren are a "novice" (would accommodate a school of grandmothers and grandfathers)
confusedMany grandmothers to grandchildren with their own children, they project a lot about them and even confusing at times their names by calling your child or grandchild as telling the grandchildren the names of their daughters.
Sometimes children are brought to the clinic by their grandmothers or grandmothers are the most interested in doing something for their grandchildren do not suffer the mess that has been reinforced at home.
As once you tell a lady of 76, grandmother of 5 grandchildren and mother of 3 children, her super cute, but extremely distressed by what was happening at home.
"grandmothers are FUN WITH YOUR GRANDCHILDREN, CAN BREAK THE RULES AND ENJOY THEM, reconnect from the innocence of children and from the wisdom of grandparents"
I think no one wants to be reflected in this cartoon right?
How to avoid it? Within the limits of parenting. By becoming parents often spend more than half of our lives in caring, maintaining, educating children, but we forget to ENJOY OUR CHILDREN.
The opportunity to be grandmothers and grandfathers is wonderful. But as poder aceptar que vemos a nuestros hijos sufrir por no poder hacer bien su trabajo de padres. Que difícil!!!
Si un(a) abuelo(a) pretender reemplazar o asumir el rol de padre o madre con los nietos, es ahí, donde comenzaría el problema. Una cosa es ser madre de un niño de 5 y ver que no se lastime cuando juegue, ser el padre de una chica de 10 que prefiere quedarse mas tiempo viendo TV que hacer las tareas, ser la madre de una adolescente que esta mal después de su primera decepción amorosa, ser el padre de un joven que no se atreve a decirle que no le gusta la carrera que eligió y ya no quiere estudiarla... a medida que pasa el tiempo ser padre es mas difícil, uno tiene que saber contener y guiar emocionalmente with children in all odds.
But there comes a time to do a waiver, get rid of the children and let them make mistakes, of course if one does not let 30 years it is more painful and less if those adults 30 and have 2 children under 5.
say not so tragic, let's see it from another perspective, look from a joint initiative with them, and this is something that grandmothers unlike mothers are more easily. Remember that they have gone through the experience of being mothers, can now be "colleagues" for their daughters, sharing woman to woman, heal resentment and leave behind the fights between mother and teenage daughter. Displayed without risk no role to play to their daughters and be themselves, mature women are only now know how to enjoy life and can teach us and help us discover the world.
There is something infinitely thank you for telling me life as a grandmother who always kept an innocent spirit like a child, but also taught me that if you do not loose time to their children or grandchildren suffering lot. Today as an adult granddaughter and even I find it hard to accept that she is distressed by all and that no life for anyone, but I understand that is how it is, so I accept it.
I appreciate everything you gave me, you could say he played and shared with me more than my mother, becoming a girl to understand. All that being single, since she lost her mother at 10 years because no one taught or accompanied during her mother and still gave all the love I had within his family, that act of love is the most beautiful, but so far the consequences when you have to see who loved you too living in pain because they are not loved herself enough.
And even with that pain today, she continues to teach me not to fear anything because of the incredible faith that remains. Faith which he held for his daughters and grandchildren.
grandmothers now, it may not taught to be women own their lives and free, without children to care and to realize its dream of life. But his grandchildren to help them see life differently, has looked upon as beings constantly evolving and you will discover the great love they have been stored all these years ... Animo and begins to firm and decisive but especially the most loving way possible.
have long sought to address this issue as a personal passion and when I get this video of Ken Robinson about his new book, gave me the input required to do so.
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Daily reach children and adolescents consultation, unmotivated, bored, stressed, with an unlimited number of symptoms and illnesses every parent is concerned. But with the passing of the sessions, they are depriving their difficulties and they discover something that makes them feel very special.
Unfortunately, and I hate using this word but it's true. Adults do not help them continue to discover within themselves what is its element, this inner passion hidden in each one of us. Most come
concerned in solving the difficulties of their children and have no idea that they have potential, or despite recognizing that their children and teenagers are good at something and insist to get something, do that to one side as not useful and appropriate for them at that time.
remember at some point have felt frustrated by what they discovered the boys in the sessions and came after discouraged because they realized that it was not worth insisting on something that did not have the sponsorship or support from their environment.
A few of the now adults, it was easy to know that we wanted to do in our lives. We did not have anything to risk running the risk of going against what our parents said and choose to do something ourselves. Of course we were afraid of losing everything, including the support of our family and if one has no guarantee of that in a difficult situation because we were quiet and scared to death and go to the "safe" but not ours.
Finally came the moment when a child or a teenager confronts us, tell us that you no longer want to soak our fears that while not yet complete tools to do what they want NOW, if they handle the most important and we adults from our self-sufficiency, we lost ... INNOCENCE.
A child is innocent and not afraid to take risks total has little to lose. A teenager who grew up watching his great ideas and initiatives to find out who was despised by the people were most important in their lives, their family. Y adult becomes unconscious.
If we come innocent and without fear, look for the consciousness to accept that we are human beings, we think, feel and we were excited ... LET OUR CHILDREN TO FOLLOW THE NATURAL COURSE OF ITS DEVELOPMENT AND NOW WE'RE ADULTS IN YOUR STUDENTS ASP. EMOTIONAL BECAUSE THEY ARE THE GREAT MASTERS OF SENSE AS YOU FEEL THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU. Let them
our teens FIGHT FOR YOUR PERSONAL PASSION AND DO NOT LOSE THE KEY ELEMENT OF THEIR LIVES, THE LIVES OF ADULTS NOSTRA.
