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that parents have not gone through the dilemma of having to use physical punishment with their children. How many times have we overwhelmed emotionally and we realized that we beat our greatest treasure, our children.
Discipline is a daily practice of consistency and firmness. With the blows and insults all that we teach children is to abuse and / or accept abuse.
"Mommy, all in the living room tell me I am small. I do not want to be small, I want to be high. "
Why I can not grow like the others?"
"Dad, I always miss sent at the end of the line, I say I'm great and do not let them see the blackboard to the other. "
" Being tall is always cause problems?
Answering these questions, hard truth. Not only difficult for the answer to give, but because children often express these questions with ease and if they have not found an answer that reassurance repressed.
Many dads and moms despite ensure their children a proper diet and maintaining a regular medical supervision, have the task of helping their children understand and accept his physique and height. Being able to guide our children to learn to accept and enjoy themselves.
On this topic abused child or ridicule both high and low. NOT to be lower or higher than the rest of the group, but because they are vulnerable children and the group has noticed that are different and have also noticed that they are not able to defend themselves.
In addition, these boys and girls may not only be victims but aggressors in reaction to the fun of living. Here are some typical situations that these children can live inside and outside the home.
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· Soil receive greater demands of both family and school environment. A child of 5 years and 6 or 7 seems to suffer from the requirement for parents to behave like a big boy and does not do tantrums, but still look older, their level of emotional maturity is still in progress is A small child, but which seems to have a big boy. Take care not to lose sight of these details.
• In case of pubescent adolescents and there is greater pressure as a girl or a boy of 12 who appears 15 or longer when they're 17 and are "physically adults' and parents require them to" grow up fast. "
· The tall guys who are of strong character many times before the joke may react with aggression or conversely if they are introverted or shy can be isolated and suffer seeking revenge later.
• In the case of tall girls also depending on the type of character and how personality is formed may assume inappropriate behavior such as "enlarged" or react submissive and repressed because they are scared of the changes in their bodies and the reactions they generate in the environment.
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• The main reaction of parents is to minimize and even about protecting their children.
· Les hide the things that happen at home. Because they will not understand.
• During childhood these children there is greater conflict but it is in adolescence which generate certain insecurities and even rejection of themselves.
• A common difficulty in boys and girls when the end of adolescence to adulthood is going the other adults in their environment or those who know in their new interaction scenarios do not take them seriously.
• Many times children with short stature are forced to develop an ability to highlight in the group is this healthy and / or appropriate, it is important for parents to be vigilant and mark the boundaries of respect between him and his classmates. Parents sometimes make the mistake to minimize inappropriate behavior and even unpleasant surprise when they take it initially downplayed this behavior becomes a problem.
is important to respect the development of our children. Above all respect the time they use, grow more than necessary or not making the average size should not be a problem, but becomes one when they can not defend themselves.
By accepting as parents to our children help them to make them feel comfortable and enjoy what they have both physically and emotionally.
Experience in consultation with parents and children taught me to see the body of my patients not only an emotional map of their life experiences but of the things it took over from their parents and grandparents. Parents can learn a lot from this, they can identify some outstanding issues that still can not resolve them and their children have absorbed.