Fears and worries are part of the development of children and adolescents. Thanks to them learn to keep away at something or someone, can also recognize that they need more and more quickly address personal and family situations increasingly difficult and complex. Our fears as a child that is our warning signs when something is not working as it should be and that helps us take appropriate action to resolve it.
But what would happen if the course of our development and maturation stage of psycho are not met our anxieties and fears from our parents. As would become phobias.
phobia comes in the form of a marked and persistent fear, excessive or unreasonable. In these cases it is recommended that parents visit a specialist to start the respective treatment. PHOBIA
SEEMS WHEN A CHILD WAS AFRAID OF NEGLECTED AND IGNORED WHETHER IN NEGLIGENCE, OR BECAUSE LACK OF ATTENTION EVEN ADULTS WILL BE AWARE THAT NO DAMAGE YET WE OVERCOME OUR FEARS.
children to express their fears of an adult looking for containment and understanding of the experience for them, also remember that it is not easy to bring these experiences when feel that fear paralyzes us.
Here is a summary table of the most common fears and ages where they appear more frequently. Importantly, these fears are common and their presence in the child must not alarm parents, but be vigilant as the child attempts to evolve and leave behind to overcome fear is to some object, person, animal or specific situation .
Normal developmental fears:
0 to 1 year: Crying to unknown stimuli
2 to 4 years: Fear of animals
4 to 6 years: Fear of the dark to disasters, and imaginary creatures (monsters and ghosts)
6 to 9 years: Fear of physical harm or ridicule by the absence of school and sports skills
9 to 12 years: Fear of fires, accidents, serious illness. Displayed fear of serious conflict between parents or poor school performance.
12 to 18: Fears related to personal self-esteem (intellectual ability, physical appearance, fear of failure) and social relations.
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When a child experiences are no longer talking about recent transition from a phobia. Phobias are a special form of fear with the following characteristics:
Many parents make light of the fears their children, arguing that children are things that as you get older you are overcome. Or worse still to think that they are exaggerations or Baby-sitting force their children to face those fears directly, resulting in their children a huge upset, and even being unaware that the fears turn into phobias.
If your children or some children and adolescents in their environment experimanta a situation where fear and anxiety hold of them, it is important to provide quiet, containment, attention, and ask that they themselves give us a way to know Detailed reasons for their discomfort. If you identify a phobia or some fear and overwhelmed is important to see a specialist for treatment concerned.
CHILD IS ABLE TO FACE THEIR FEARS GETS BEAT THE MAXIMUM AMOUNT OF BARRIERS ALONG YOUR LIFE. The fear makes them stronger every day and awake, if an adult provided the necessary calm and help face the fear in a gradual and gentle.
"The Maid is a partner in raising our children, affection and the bond they form with our children is not negotiable nor has any price, remember that always"
" 5 steps to be taken into account and also remember that authority is not imposed, but is won in the daily link to share with our children, our life experiences when we were your age"
