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The New Granny Nana

Who are our grandmothers, the Mothers of our mother ... Women who have experienced the joy of conceiving the life of a new human being inside, have waited 9 months to bring the world and watch as the years go by so that their children become emotionally stable and independent adults.

Let me tell you something more than the grandmothers ... because in times of change and revolution grandmothers also need to be seen differently.

Even grannies are cooking you conceited rich and giving you stuff that they do or bring with you all the love in the world. But these days it's almost rare now grandmothers have experienced extreme, some are grandmothers super young in some cases under 40 while passing the 60 other grandmothers.

respect to its activities have also decreased significantly only grandmothers who were devoted to raising children at home and never worked. But there is a growing group of grandmothers who still work, they became grandmothers but still can not retire.

Another fact about the grandmothers is that having more experience mothers, they forget that in this new stage of grandchildren are a "novice" (would accommodate a school of grandmothers and grandfathers)

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Many grandmothers to grandchildren with their own children, they project a lot about them and even confusing at times their names by calling your child or grandchild as telling the grandchildren the names of their daughters.

Sometimes children are brought to the clinic by their grandmothers or grandmothers are the most interested in doing something for their grandchildren do not suffer the mess that has been reinforced at home.

As once you tell a lady of 76, grandmother of 5 grandchildren and mother of 3 children, her super cute, but extremely distressed by what was happening at home.

"grandmothers are FUN WITH YOUR GRANDCHILDREN, CAN BREAK THE RULES AND ENJOY THEM, reconnect from the innocence of children and from the wisdom of grandparents"

I think no one wants to be reflected in this cartoon right?

How to avoid it? Within the limits of parenting. By becoming parents often spend more than half of our lives in caring, maintaining, educating children, but we forget to ENJOY OUR CHILDREN.

The opportunity to be grandmothers and grandfathers is wonderful. But as poder aceptar que vemos a nuestros hijos sufrir por no poder hacer bien su trabajo de padres. Que difícil!!!

Si un(a) abuelo(a) pretender reemplazar o asumir el rol de padre o madre con los nietos, es ahí, donde comenzaría el problema. Una cosa es ser madre de un niño de 5 y ver que no se lastime cuando juegue, ser el padre de una chica de 10 que prefiere quedarse mas tiempo viendo TV que hacer las tareas, ser la madre de una adolescente que esta mal después de su primera decepción amorosa, ser el padre de un joven que no se atreve a decirle que no le gusta la carrera que eligió y ya no quiere estudiarla... a medida que pasa el tiempo ser padre es mas difícil, uno tiene que saber contener y guiar emocionalmente with children in all odds.

But there comes a time to do a waiver, get rid of the children and let them make mistakes, of course if one does not let 30 years it is more painful and less if those adults 30 and have 2 children under 5.

say not so tragic, let's see it from another perspective, look from a joint initiative with them, and this is something that grandmothers unlike mothers are more easily. Remember that they have gone through the experience of being mothers, can now be "colleagues" for their daughters, sharing woman to woman, heal resentment and leave behind the fights between mother and teenage daughter. Displayed without risk no role to play to their daughters and be themselves, mature women are only now know how to enjoy life and can teach us and help us discover the world.

There is something infinitely thank you for telling me life as a grandmother who always kept an innocent spirit like a child, but also taught me that if you do not loose time to their children or grandchildren suffering lot. Today as an adult granddaughter and even I find it hard to accept that she is distressed by all and that no life for anyone, but I understand that is how it is, so I accept it.

I appreciate everything you gave me, you could say he played and shared with me more than my mother, becoming a girl to understand. All that being single, since she lost her mother at 10 years because no one taught or accompanied during her mother and still gave all the love I had within his family, that act of love is the most beautiful, but so far the consequences when you have to see who loved you too living in pain because they are not loved herself enough.

And even with that pain today, she continues to teach me not to fear anything because of the incredible faith that remains. Faith which he held for his daughters and grandchildren.

grandmothers now, it may not taught to be women own their lives and free, without children to care and to realize its dream of life. But his grandchildren to help them see life differently, has looked upon as beings constantly evolving and you will discover the great love they have been stored all these years ... Animo and begins to firm and decisive but especially the most loving way possible.