"He kept sitting two hours and did not eat even half of the plate"
"I despair that you play with food in the mouth and get up every 5 minutes "
" I hate having to go on TV to eat everything I served him "
These are some of the constant complaints that many moms and dads made at the time of feeding their children. "What's the matter, the parents no longer have the patience or creativity? Do children prefer to feed on otherwise?
A mother arrives at the office and begins to express the frustration, anguish and despair experienced when he has to feed her 5 year old girl. "YA DO NOT KNOW, SOMETIMES I THINK THAT MAKES ME THE PURPOSE AND WANT TO Renegade, SHE KNOWS ALL YOU HAVE TO EAT AND FAST, I'm sick. "
I bring this type of reaction to remind all the dads and moms when their children are in some activity are thrilled that their concentration is total. It is difficult to distract them and make them concentrate on other activities unless the latter is more attractive than the first.
How to make mealtime is attractive?
- Sharing our children to prepare their food. From making a sandwich to a more elaborate meal together.
- When shopping, ask helping them to get food to be eaten both lunch box at home during the 3 main meals.
- Learning to manage our emotions as parents and do not push so our children so that the dish is clean.
- Why not take the risk and invent some kind of game for food. It is true that all children should learn to eat with cutlery and table manners show, but it is worth making the mealtime fun again.
- Remember that children as smaller, more vulnerable and we must pay attention to the responses that occur before, during and after eating food.
- Present new foods in a striking manner and give us enough time and patience to teach them how to enjoy the new food before forcing them to eat without seeing us eat and make sure that nothing bad will happen.
What if in spite of following the letter totas the recommendations given my son (a) continuously without eating?
The game is not really a food, but serves a nurturer. Just as we worry about feeding our children to grow up healthy. It is also important to nurture to play with them, so check directly and clearly that parents can trust.
Trust between parents and children is paramount, as is the game and that is through play, children measure how reliable are the parents for them. We tested to find out how we maintain consistent and strong despite the circumstances as they arise.
Finally, when a person is experiencing a moment of tension, anxiety or worry, your body is tense and no one is able to feed themselves adequately. This daddies eye, not only to seek do eat, we address and find out what he did to stop eating.
A child playing and spending power is a child with a healthy appetite. Since energy and has spent the need to eat more through the foods you offer at home. But if a child is also nurtured through play enjoy excellent health both physically and emotionally.
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