are many programs that have spent many minutes called Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS). In many cases, experts have explained the various tricks that some parents break down, literally, the image of the other parent's current spouse and child.
One of the foremost experts in our country is José Manuel Aguilar Cuenca, a contributor to our publication and expertise which served, among other reasons, the judge ruled in favor of a girl of eight years in the city of Manresa. Note that I said "for girls" and not "in favor of the father" and that she is undoubtedly the most benefit from having a father and mother at the time. We can not go into further detail, by sheer ignorance, in this particular case but we are many professionals who have seen real build walls around one of the parents. From the daily subtlety: "Wow, your father, always comes late again! "or" you know like your mother. " Phrases out of context have no meaning at all but just repeated like a mantra, outline, year after year, a view of another parent who is unable to balance absent affect.
Be positive, we list some rules for what to do when we return to a new relationship and encourage our child to be integrated into the new situation:
* When you preach to children who have found someone to share your life, that explicadles they will not lose any of your love and the new situation does not preclude you take care of them.
* Let it clear that his dad / mom will always be your dad / mom and no one will replace it.
* Do not presionéis to willingly support your new / a partner and the right Let them show their enmity.
* It is useless to force the change of situation by trying to "buy" with gifts, is more practical to show concern for them and their activities.
* Allow your partner engaged in an educational activity in everyday life ... but important decisions are taken by the father or the mother.
* Do not ask your children about the intimate life of your / a "former" and, of course, not desvaloricéis his eyes.
* If the child of your / a partner to spend the weekend with you, seek to have their own room, and if this is not possible, a corner that belongs.
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