Depending on how we know ourselves that we react to the environment around. Depending on this perception we will embark on various tasks that will test what we thought we are in relation to what can truly perform. If a person has a poor idea of \u200b\u200bitself prove that you can not companies undertaking for which, paradoxically, if it could be trained. That is, their self-image becomes your worst enemy. On the contrary, have a magnified idea itself is likely to take you to suffer unnecessary failures throughout his life.
But what is failure? First, is life experience that should serve to improve ourselves and learn not to make the same mistake. Yes, we all know that saying so English that " man is the only animal that stumbles on the same stone ." But even in this situation is that learning is apparent other, parallel to the stone in question. Perhaps in relation to oneself " I should not have relationships with certain people "or, for example, conduct such business.
Those that sink are people with problems with lack of self-knowledge, recklessness, victimization and a certain amount of rebellion useless. On the contrary, that not only do mature age but in compliance using the setbacks to learn. In short: you "educate yourself."
From all this we can draw a good useful experience for our children:
• In those situations we do not get the expected result should be constituted as a problem to solve and not a "failure." We focus on how to overcome this difficulty analyzing the mistakes made and this time, helping you achieve your accomplishments.
Do not make you feel inferior to others when obtaining optimal results. Or by contrast make you feel superior for having achieved success.
So there is a failure or we're just learning?
;-) There is open debate.
José Miguel Gaona
Director, "Teaching Well"
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